Day 11 – Strategic Partnership in Marriage
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How many of us are in our second, third, or fourth marriages? There can be valid reasons for divorce, but if I reflect on my life, I must acknowledge that it was because of the absence of Godβs leadership and guidance in my marriage. I never truly understood my role as a helper, and my strategic planning and guidance were not always in the best interest of my husband and household.
I often sabotaged the household and made poor financial decisions without involving my husband. The bottom line is that I focused more on my needs and less on adding value to my husbandβs needs. We became two separate ships without a clear mission or guidance. Our marriage turned into an inner battle and a playground for the enemy to pull us apart.
It is essential that, as married partners, we work together toward a common goal. This means we must be honest, transparent, and clear about how to achieve that goal. Strategic planning comes from a foundation of communication, clarification, and weighing options. As the helper, your strategic planning is crucial to enabling your husband to pray correctly and to make decisions aligned with Godβs will.
Prayer: Lord God, help us not to rely on our own understanding when making strategic plans, but to seek guidance within Your will for our lives. Help us to support our husbands and not steer us in the wrong direction. Teach us to be patient, humble, and wise as we navigate our shared journey. Help us to do good for one another so that we can make informed decisions that please You. Fill our hearts with love, unity, and discernment, and remind us always to prioritize Your purpose in our marriage. May Your Holy Spirit guide us in every step we take together. Thank You for Your grace, mercy, and unfailing love. In Jesusβ name, I pray. Amen. Β©
Marie Swanepoel
